How Can I Forgive You(An Eye For An Eye)

Who loves to feel mistreated,misused,abused or be done wrong in any other fashion? I know I don't! forgiving,forgetting,turning the other cheek,letting things go and being the so called bigger person is overrated. I am speaking on this because I know that I go through this same dilemma myself. I hate when someone tells me shit like two wrongs don't make a right,or just let it go.We are constantly drilled that taking the high road is the right thing to do,well maybe it's the bigger thing to do,but not everyone feels this way am I right? It's not easy to get over pain, that hurt feeling, and I'm not one for bottling things up so that other person gets closure or to sleep comfortably,justification for their dastardly actions,more than words,that doesn't  that hardly seem fair at all.. what have I gained?sure forgiveness is a noble gesture,and tells the person that your forgiving that you no longer care about what they've done,that what they've put you through is no longer an issue,but what does it really do for the person that's doing the forgiving?we all love the feeling of getting away with the less than honorable acts that we commit,even though we probably knew what we were doing from the start,it's human nature,but not justifiable by any means. The choice to get over or forgive someone is totally in your hands and everyone is different and will handle it in his or her own way,but know this,while you're being that better person and doing the right thing to do,keep your feelings and well being in mind,also know that if you're not willing to ultimately forget,well you've really never forgave to begin with.

I know sometimes it's difficult to do but..

You have to live within your means! I know it can be hard to do with the desire to have all the things that we see others have,the constant feeling of wanting stuff..and I call it stuff because if you notice a little while after that next big I have to have that moment once that need,want,desire has been met the thrill is gone also,maybe not instantaneous all the time,but somewhere shortly after it's doesn't seem so important anymore. Making sound choices is a phrase often used and easily overlooked and I'll tell you why.. It actually goes back to that programmed statement,we want to feel this way or fit in or even this is what everyone else is doing,wearing,where everyone else is going,actually thinking of consequences before purchasing and weighing needs versus wants helps,"playing broke" is one sure way to keep that cash inside your pocket. If I tell/convinced myself that I don't have it then how can I spend what I don't have? It's easy to say save your money and play it smart with your money,but truthfully is all up to the individual to ultimately make that happen..but if you're tired of being broke but stuck with world full of materialistic and often worthless junk,that feeling of why did I just do that when I knew that I really didn't need to,then maybe,just maybe it's time to take control and adjust this situation.

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This Shit Needs To Stop!

Race this,race that,police brutality religion wars,genocide... There's something really wrong here,but its too bad most don't and will never know,understand or even put forth effort to get or contribute any form of solution to what that is. I am not a clone..which means I have the ability to think and act differently from others,but if we choose to keep such closed minds nothing will ever change. We are not a race but humanity  racing morality and morality is loosing badly 

Like Wtf, Omg,Damn..,Or I Can't Believe It!

That moment when you catch your girl or guy cheating. That moment when you find out chat someone close to you ratted you out. That moment that you found out that you have that disease. The time you almost crashed. The time that you dodged that bullet. The moment that you realize that you have the winning numbers in that lottery. When you figure it out that the baby isn't yours.the moment white people found out we were having a black president. That moment when you find out your favorite idol wasn't who you thought they were. Right before that plane crashes. That moment when you figure it out that your in over your head.that moment your car stops in the middle of nowhere. When you scuff up that new pair of shoes. When you stain that new outfit. When you meet someone that you consider famous. When you've reached climax. When you don't reach climax. When you've been slapped. When you've been spit on. When you catch him scratch his balls then attempt to secretly sniff them. That moment when you catch an ass digger. That moment when you walk inside your door and find out that you've been robbed. The moment you find out he or she likes you. The moment when you get your taxes ripped. That moment when you find out that she's pregnant. Someone special dies. That time you lost that money. When you've figured out that you've locked the keys inside your car. The time that you decided to wear dirty socks and had to take your shoes off. That moment when you find something in your food. The moment moment when you get home at find out your order is wrong.the moment those prison bars slam shut. The first puffs of that fire cannibus.Catching your parents having sex.Finding out your kid is having sex.Life's just full of times and moments so feel free to add to this with comments and follow my blogs 

The Concept; Back To The Basics

There's two ways that you can go about doing that,there's the right way and the other way. You hear people saying that bs let's meet in the middle,comprising,and that agree to disagree bs also,now I don't have anything against getting along nor with solving issues before they escalate, as a matter of fact I'd prefer that. The thing with sweeping shit under a rug is that the trash is still there and in order to get rid of it is to pick it up and throw it out. We all are different, and we are not always going to see things as that other person does so it's very important to make compatible choices,opposites may attract,but guarantee they are a shit load of problems in the long run. Think about it,isn't in the norm to want to subdue or control your opposition? seeking compatibility decreases this problem greatly. We've come a long way from Adam and Eve,Fred and Wilma concept which is okay to a certain degree because some primitive gestures will never die,like women appreciate a man opening her doors right?or it feels good when he waits until you sit before he does, and compliments your attributes right?when he touches you just the way that you like showing that he's paying attention? No guy will ever turn down getting  acknowledged for his accomplishments,being lifted when he's been knocked down,hearing the words baby I have your back, the concept of the women being seductive yet submissive will never die,we love a woman that can cook (not mandatory,but no doubt she can hold it down in the kitchen)there's nothing wrong with a man cooking,cleaning & doing house chores either,but a woman that knows her place is beside her man and not in front of him will always hold. People use terms such as "what do I need a man for?" could you imagine a world full of  just women?lol, I don't have a problem with independent women,just a problem with cocky ones.Success shouldn't be measured by the amount of stuff you acquire,but how fulfilling your life is,not your net worth,but your self worth. The concept of a man and woman being best friends,partners,loyal to each other and all things pertaining will always exist. Being married once is not a myth,nor is monogamous relationships. So you see ,yes we are in ever changing times,but the concept of building has and will always be better starting from the ground up,so back to the basics.

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