just because you don't act on your sexual impulses,fantasies,cheating thoughts,desires, doesn't mean that you're better than anyone. It only means that you had enough willpower to suppress those urges. Timing is everything right.. Now,do I want a woman or man that actually cheats? Or do I want a woman or man that only thinks about it but never actually acts on those thoughts? It's such a tough choice, but I don't really want either.. too bad we can't read minds huh. Comments?