Tuesday, November 22, 2016

Relationships,casual encounters,going the distance

I know that I've said all encounters are relationships there is an exception,one contact.. but unless there is only one contact with said person and that's it period,but now I just want to touch on the whole stick together and let's make this work thing.. Every relationship has a timeline,deadline,expiration date..whether 1day,1month,1year,10years etc. peep the signs on it,play the part accordingly.So that's just dummy talk! if something isn't going to work it just isn't.. and signs of that are present as early as a day,week,month just don't be a fool and waste precious time on someone who clearly isn't healthy or dragging you down. Compromising values or personal health isn't a relationship you want to get caught in,invest your time in nor worth the effort. Feel free to comment

1 comment:

Boonapolus83 said...

I think that if both people are wanting and willing to put in the time and effort for a relationship it will work. If both aren't willing to then it is a waste of time. Relationships aren't going to save anyone. They're meant to compliment the other partner, not complete them. You have to have self worth to make it work.

It's hard because sometimes you're not sure when to walk away or when to keep fighting.

It took me a really long time to realize that I shouldn't beg the person I love to spend time with me. It was really hard to let go because I've always believed in this person and saw their potential to be an amazing partner...but they didn't see it in themselves.

You can't make someone love you. Eventually, you have to let go and move on if they're not there with you.. in the end you are responsible for your happiness. Choose wisely.