The qualities We Possess,Where Do You Fit In?

Why is it so hard to let go,forgive,move on/forward,promote positivity,remain positive in adverse situations,posses honesty,remain faithful,have faith,loyalty,compassion,understanding towards less fortunate,differences,the willingness to be opened  what we don't know or understand. We are ALL one nation under God ,indivisible,with liberty and justice for all right..