Can You Live With That?

Things are never going to be or go as expected. I'm saying that we can manipulate,scheme, or any of the many other tricks we use to control the outcome of whatever that situation may be. So many times I see people use that good ole act/ attitude of "well..he or she did this,so I'm going to get back by doing this!" I can guarantee that most posses this mentality. I ask God constantly these days to lighten my heart, I have a lot growth to achieve and fighting a multitude of demons on a constant bases,because negative people make you do some of the craziest things,misguided information, seeking wisdom from someone just as lost as you never leads to any positive outcome,it kind of just cures your thirsting for validation. I find myself turning to unproductive things and people that I know are not going to fix me,but drag me back into.my same old mental state of mind. You have to be careful how you handle your feelings because they are a serious matter,and quick judgement can lead to making bad decisions and choices. We always seem to go with our minds in turmoil,which then leads to hasty actions. I will say this,be careful..careful of the people that you let come into your life,careful of the way that you live your life,because all of our choices do matter and  in that we must be prepared to deal with those choices as well,everything we do has a consequence whether good or bad and it's how we handle these situations which will show our character. You'll never be able to control another persons actions,another persons life only defer them from the inevitable. It really isn't how people perceive you,but how you perceive yourself,but is it all about yourself? I say view your issues thoroughly,because there are usually factors that we overlook selfishly,can you live with those?,if so,then you're good.