What Were You Thinking?

I want to start this off by saying Get Over Yourself! I mean it doesn't get any vainer than this.I'm so tired of adjusting to the way that things have changed at the hands of social media & the way that a large percentage of people view male and female relationships. I mean the other day I saw a profile on one of these social media sites of a person that I vaguely know so I decided to friend request her, and it was just that,a friend request.. so, the point of this is to say that anyone that thinks they're that important or even wanted in that manner should take a step back,re-evaluate said thought process and then come again. I'm sure it's hard to believe that everyone doesn't want you,you're not attractive to everyone,and every guy that seeks friendship is trying to get with you. I'm not going to say that the era of text,online dating,social media websites hasn't severely affected the way that people interact towards each other,but there are still people out that have a different perspective on companionship,friends,sex,and generally how to treat people with respect.

Online Dating,

Free Online Dating,Internet Dating,Social Media Sites,What can I say,it's ALL a big joke.. you have to see the humor in it..

Missed Connection

Never wait on that person or thing to come to you,because chances are that it will probably never happen.Say what you need to say,do what you need to do. Let down is one of the number one causes of missed connections. I don't want to feel some type of way after placing my heart on my sleeve or going for something and it doesn't go the way that I'd like. I say this because I too have missed out on a lot of things because of this so I decided to speak on it. Feel free to vent that missed connection in your life or just comment,share etc.

The Silver Lining

The past is the past,we lived it,learned from it,get over it,then move on to make new memories,hopefully bigger and better than before. So no worries,it may seem like things will not come together,but be patient,you may be in your silver lining moment,but take the negatives and switch the script on them finding the positives,life is full of possibilities if you're willing to accept that which tries to hinder you and turn it into opportunity 

A different perspective on this

Take a minute and think about it..how many times have we have given up something amazing just because we let egos,feelings,he say she say bs,assumptions, some secretly jealous association get in the way? I'm here to say that it's not worth it..live and be happy doing it,fk what people think,say because there will always be critical ass people no matter what you do and you will never be right no matter how hard you try to fit into societies perfect little box

A day in the life/Taking In The Moments

Sitting here..sitting here just thinking,thinking about all of the things that were said,going through my texts trying to piece shit together..but it all comes back to this,this place,this place that I never want to see,never want to go. What's the value of a phone call,value of a few minutes of your time,a minute out of busy ass schedule to show that you care,disappearing acts,all the psychological games what's to gain? winners,losers all of these labels and no,no resolution,no reality,no truth,no consciousness of actions,there's always losers.. never win hurting someone that you bond with,care about,or value,but what do you really want,really need,just have to have it?for one minute,one hour,one month,one year..what do you want? Is this solid?seeking substance...to be continued..to be continued on to what?where?where do we go from here ?if what is up must come,does it have to come down so far,is there a middle ground,a happy medium. Time passes,things happen,things get lost in translation,things get forgotten. Still..for a moment,man I love those moments..thinking back with a smile,hopefully there's more to come

Options

Options also make the world go round wouldn't you agree?they control our actions in so many ways. If the,or a certain option isn't there,then we do or choose from what's available at that time true?Let's think,some of the things that we do we probably wouldn't if we did not have the option to do whatever that thing may be. So many of my choices have been based on my options available at that time. Now it doesn't take an hour long post to make a point,so short and simple..options are just that,options..they are just there to defer, there's still sound judgement required